moftheirheartboldlytotheirlovers.3.1.plimentsatHomeItssocietywithindividualismpopular,binationoftwoindividuals.Andmarriageisbasedonloveandsexintheiropinion;marriagewithoutloveisimmoralandoflowquality.SowesaythatwesternweddingisahumanrightandtheChineseweddingismorelikeanobligationforfamily.Respectandfreedomisthemostbasicprincipleintherelationshipofmarriage.Nomatterhowdeepthemaritalloveis,theAmericancouplesdonotignorethesetwoprinciples,respectandfreedom.Theyknowtheimportancetoholdonthetwobasicbottomlinesiftheywanttomakealastingmarriage.BecauseofthedifferencesofChineseandwesternculture,peoplehavedifferentviewsandmeansofexpressionsforthesamethings.pliments,theChineselanguageisimplicitandeuphemistic;theAmericanlanguageisenthusiasticandstraightforward.plimentstotheirfamilymembers.Theyknowspousal