f blame 不要指责?Review facts, but acknowledge their limits ? 回顾事实,在他们的知识范围内讲解?Ask about personal, religious beliefs, or support systems? 了解个性、宗教信仰或支持系统РParental Reactions 家长的反应РParents must attach before letting go? 处理婴儿前要让家长接触它?Parental grief may be equal, but expressed differently? 家长们的悲伤可以相同,但表现各异:?Maternal reactions based on degree of prenatal attachment? 母亲反应的强烈程度与其孕期对胎儿的爱慕程度有关?Paternal reactions based on connectedness to pregnancy, sense of fatherhood, image of infant? 父亲的反应取决于他对妊娠的连贯性、做父亲的感觉及对孩子的想象程度?Guilt, self-blame mon parental reaction? 家长们常有的反应是悲伤和自我责备РHelping The Older Sibling(s)?对家中大孩子的帮助РProvide information 提供信息?Encourage them to see and hold child? 鼓励他们看一看、抱一抱婴儿?Provide a gift or token of goodwill? 送一件礼物或许一个好愿?Encourage focus on normal developmental aspects? 诱导他们把注意力集中在发育正常的方面