iageinAmerica:parentsdonotarrangemarriagesfortheirchildren,nordochildrenusuallyaskpermissionoftheirparentstogetmarried.romanticloveismostoftenthebasisformarriageyoungadultsmeettheirfuturespousesthroughtheirownsocialrelationshipschildrenstillhopetheirparentswillapproveoftheirchoicesonspouses.inChina:parentsoftenarrangemarriagesfortheirchildrensomeofthemmarriagedforresponsibilitiesorpressuresAmericansliketospendallthemoneywithoutsavingandbuythingsindebtbutChinesepeopleliketoliveaconservativelife.Thecontradictionfromthisoftenresultsinconflictsandeventuallyleadstodivorce.AforeignermarryingaChinesegirloftengetthreepeopleintheend--tomarryaChinesegirlalsomeanstotakecareofthegril’sparents.Buttheoldparentsmaynotgetonwellwiththeforeignson-in-munication.Thisisalsoafactorcausingtheunfortunatemarriage.
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