conversations you have dozens of time a day .It all seems pretty trivial ,Idle chatter about traffic doesn't do much more than fill the air with empty words that are quickly forgotten .But you should know that small talk actually has a big place in our livesРPat oliver, assistant professor on arts ,says that ,“left unchecked,small talk can be an invasion .It's so powerful.It does something to you''РEvery morning after spending an hour and half on the freeway I start the day with small talk with my secretary "Oliver says ''If I don't make small cion with another person,I can't work''РWhat causes it? As a rule, you're either tying to force something into your life ,or you 're using conversation .as an invisible force field to .keep them out ,you can be wanting to connect with another person.