brainstorm and think\rcritically. Discussions at home can help kids practice doing these things and help them apply\rthese skills to everyday life situations.\rWhat about the son or daughter who is grown but seems to be struggling and\rwandering aimlessly through early adulthood? Parents still have a major role to play, but\rnow it is more delicate. They have to be careful not to come across as disappointed in their\rchild. They should exhibit strong interest and respect for whatever currently interests their\rfledging adult (as naive or ill conceived as it may seem) while becoming a partner in\rexploring options for the future. Most of all, these new adults must feel that they are\rrespected and supported by a family that appreciates them.