ony as an important thing in marriage. T hey hold the wedding ceremony and all the friends and relatives attending the ceremony. In the film, GaoWei tong ’s classmate XiaoLuo said: “ GaoWei tong is my classmate and we have been friends for sixteen years ,but he didn ’t tell me until one week ago. ’’ From the film, we can see that Wei tong ’s parents are sitting on chair and waiting for offering tea. This is Chinese tradition and custom. GaoWei tong ’s mother said: “ WeiWei must drink white Lotus seeds soup so that she can give birth toa healthy son . The process is hosted by toast master of the ceremony and then the father will give a speech to bless lover s. In the film, Wei tong ’s father tell them that they should love and respect each other .O nly in this way can marriage last forever.