akessoparentsshouldnotdictate\rchildrenwhatwant,butguidetotherightpath,fbrexamplemostparentssomethingwrong.When\rchildrenaretoughttodotheirownchoicecouldeasilymanagetheiraffairs,whengrowup.\rChildrenmaysometimesgiveagoodopinion,sothatitisgoodtounderstandratherthanupsetting\rthem.ManyparentsInAfricadonotbelieveoflistenchildren,thatiscausemany\rAfricanchildrenbecomevandalsandaggressorstowardthecommunity.\rIfweteachouryoungerstodeterminetheirownchoices,theywillshowrespecttotheirad\rcommunityinisgeneralbecausetheyneverfeltoppressedandtheywouldnotbothertoanywhenthey\rgetolder.\rOverall,whenwelistenourchildrenthatwemaketheirfuturepersonalitybetter,parentsshould\rrespectchildren.Somelikeadultswhentheparentstrytorefusechildrensomethingtheyshouldjustify\rtothemwhytheyrefusedexplaintothemthereasons.