amily-planningpolicyinthe1980s.Mostfamilieshaveonlyonechildnow,\rsothechildrenarealwaysoverlovedbytheirparentsandgrandparents.Parents,fbrexample,\ralwayssparenoefforttosatisfythechildren'sanydemand.What'smore,parentswouldrather\rshoulderallthehardshipsbythemselvesthanallowthechildrentobefacedwithanyobstacle.\rInfact,thisexcessivelovewillonlyleadtotheproblemthatthechildrencannotovercomethe\rdifficultieswhentheygrowup.Whatismostimportantisthatchildrenwhoarespoiledwill\reasilyfeeldepressedwhentheyareconfrontedwithasmallhardshipinthefuture.\rTherefore,itisnecessaryfbrustopayattentiontothisproblemofparentaloverprotection.\rForonething,parentsshouldrealizetheseriousnessofthisproblem.Andforanother,parents\roughttohelpchildrentowardsindependenceanddeveloptheirabilitytoovercomedifferent\robstacles.